Evidential Mediumship
I practice evidence-based mediumship. This means I connect with your loved ones and friends in the spirit world. I ask them to give me evidence about themselves that you’ll understand so you’ll know they are with us during the session.
I never know what evidence they might provide. But it might include things like their relationship to you, personality, shared memories, passing condition, family background, career, hobbies, habits, dates, or sometimes names. Every reading and every person in the spirit world is unique and I trust they will bring what is needed for you to recognize them.
I will also provide any message the person in spirit wishes to communicate to you. These messages will always be healing and/or comforting in nature. My goal is always to allow you to feel the essence of your loved one for a little while even though they are in spirit.
If you prefer a reading that is primarily about you & your life situation – rather than evidence from spirit world – you may be better suited with a psychic reading. If you have booked the wrong type and wish to change, please message me or use the links in your booking confirmation to cancel and re-book another type.
My Process
I will start the session by spending a couple minutes talking about my how I work and what you can expect. Then I will move my awareness to the spirit world and your loved one(s) will be there ready to connect with us! I will begin to relay their evidence and any messages for you.
People often book a private reading because they want to connect with a particular loved one in spirit. While I can never guarantee a connection to a specific spirit communicator, once we begin I may ask you if there is someone in particular you want to hear from in the spirit world. Most of the time I can connect with them if you tell me their relationship to you and/or their first name.
I completely understand that many people are skeptical of mediumship and may be reluctant to take that approach. In fact, I often find the people who most want to hear from a particular person are of the most reluctant to tell me! And that is certainly ok – you don’t have to tell me anything. There is still a reasonable chance the person you want to hear from will come through in the reading anyway.
However, they may not be the first person I sense – or even the second or third. And that isn’t because they’re not “there” for you, or because they don’t want to connect with you. It is simply because when I begin to work with the spirit world, it is a bit like walking into a crowded party with all your loved ones and friends who are in the spirit world all hanging out. The person you most want to hear from simply may not be the one who catches my attention first – or at all – during our session.
Many mediums will not offer this “on demand” option and will tell you that they trust the spirit world to bring through who you need to hear from, even if it is not who you want to hear from. I respect their approach, but I prefer an approach that equally respects both you and the spirit world. I trust your person will bring through all the evidence you need to recognize them even if you specifically request them when we begin!
Nothing to Fear
A reading with me will always be a comforting, uplifting, or healing experience! There is never anything to fear.
I have communicated with many hundreds of spirit communicators over the years and I can firmly say I do not believe in “evil” spirits, entity attachments, “stuck” spirits, etc. These types of fears are ingrained in most people through misleading and fear-based TV shows & movies, as well as a great deal of misinformation that exists online. My experience shows that spirit communicators come through only with messages of love, healing, hope, or comfort – even if they had difficult lives or challenging relationships with you in the physical world.
Preparing for Your Session
It never hurts to tell your loved ones in spirit in advance that you’d like to hear from them! You can do this out loud or just by thinking of them before our session. They definitely hear us when we want them to even if we only communicate with them in our head. After all, my communication with them is mainly by thought as well! So by all means tell them about our upcoming session and invite them to join us.
It helps a great deal if you are able to be in a quiet, private location for our session. If you are in a crowded café or at home with noisy kids playing nearby, it can be very difficult to focus on the session or sometimes to hear one another. It is always best to have some quiet and privacy, particular because some messages can be of a personal nature.
Being in a calm, receptive state of mind also helps tremendously. It is ok to be a little nervous, but if you’re too upset or your grief is too fresh, it may be better to hold off on a reading.
You are an important part of this session so please set yourself up to have the best possible experience! 🙂
Frequency
For mediumship readings, I recommend you wait at least 2-3 months after someone’s passing before seeing any medium. This is to allows you to at least begin the natural grieving process.
For similar reasons, it is also generally best to wait at least a year between mediumship appointments. After all, your loved ones in spirit will always want you to live your earthly life to the fullest – not just spend all your time seeking out mediums!
My Do’s and Don’ts
I DON’T… believe in evil spirits, stuck spirits / spirit rescue, etc.
I DON’T… refer to, or even usually remember, past readings. I don’t have a great memory to begin with and when I read I’m in a slightly altered state of mind and rarely remember much. If I remember anything from past readings I will tell you first as we begin.
I DON’T… guarantee I can connect with a particular spirit communicator on a given day. However, the vast majority of the time I am able to connect with those you want to hear from most.
I DON’T… provide secret code words you may have setup with a loved one prior to passing. By holding this requirement in your mind, you are likely closing yourself off to the receipt of other evidence spirit will provide. Also, in the unlikely event a medium were to pickup this information in a reading, it is more likely they will be getting that from you psychically and not from the spirit communicator.
I DO… always keep things positive and light. Even spirit communicators who may have been difficult or challenging in the physical world will provide a positive experience – even if it is just to take responsibility for their actions while they were here.
I DO… strive to ensure you are happy with your reading by explaining my process up-front.
I DO… appreciate referrals. Even though I have this fancy web site, the vast majority of my clients still find me by being referred by others!
I DO… respect your privacy. I know that what comes up in a reading can often be extremely personal and emotional and it will stay between us (and Spirit!). For details, check out my privacy policy.
Follow-up
You will receive an automated email within a couple days of your reading. Testimonials and referrals are how almost everyone finds me, so they are always greatly appreciated if you enjoyed your reading!
For those who would like to tip or make an extra donation after your reading, you can use this link to my PayPal. These are always very much appreciated, but are never, ever required or expected.
I truly love mediumship and being able to be the voice for Spirit. It has changed my life and I’m always deeply honored to be able to connect with these spirit people. It is my goal to do this with as many people as possible to show the reality that we continue as a loving consciousness that survives and transcends the death of our physical bodies.
If you are interested, you can book a session with me.
With Deepest Gratitude,
~Tim